Making A Difference... How Can YOU Make A Difference?

I have been nurturing this sense that I can make a difference in the world forever... I even remember at age 3-4 thinking about that, so it must have come from before birth... Of course, life doesn't seem to prove it. As a coach I may be able to change someone's behavior, maybe even contribute to them being high-minded, but all in all, my life, from the point of view of making a difference, has been a Failure. I am reaching for the starts, and I am coming up with a fistful of dirt... time and …

Two main reasons you don't have the life you want

… the t. The life-goal you've set goes in another direction. Your movie script is going to win unless you unearth, with a good coach, what is running the script. I have seen "I am a Failure", "I am not smart enough", "people will always take advantage of me", "you can't trust", etc. etc. etc. etc. as the backbones of the movie scripts that win... unless the mechanism gets dismantled, and redirected to a healthier path. The 100-day challenge is such an opportunity. My courses are such an …

Clarity... delusions of grandeur

… So the type of coaching client, "Pete" shows the same characteristics. He is always ready to be offended, when people treat him like he is less smart and less knowledgable that he is in his mind's eye. His life is full of Failures, full of dullness... his grand plans don't pan out, but it is never his fault. The plan was good, he was great, other people didn't understand him, didn't appreciate him. He is not appreciative for help, instead he gets annoyed. What you give him is never good enough, …

If you were a company: what kind of company would you be?

We all come with different strengths... it could be said, they are inclinations. They are approaches to life and to challenges. When left to our own devices, we always do things the same way... good or bad, effective or not, we say "it should work" then it doesn't.

As a coach I have an unlimited source for ideas to share: my clients provide me with a wide variety of case studies, and insights into the successes and Failures of systems, ideas. I am going to share one of these in this article: When we just look at someone, we already know what they are capable of... or do we? We "see" that they are not cut out to have their own business because... and after that "because" there is a series of words, like they don't have vision, they work to much and don't …