When and How You Should Argue with Your Coach?

This is important, and I hope everyone gets it. As a Coach, I often experience people taking my remarks as criticism, and are compelled to protect or defend themselves. I normally "fire them" as clients. Why? Because they are missing the point. And I am not about wasting my "Light" on black holes... You hire a Coach to point out what they can see from their point of view. What is their point of view? That is immaterial. The only thing that matters is that their point of view is not the same as …

What Doesn't Make Sense in Internet Marketing Training

I am a Coach. I Coach internet marketing, I Coach mindset... and I love it. What I don't love is getting all the people that end up with me that got their start with other Coaches... Coaches that lack the most fundamental elements of teaching, attitudes , thinking, foundation, and actions steps. I mean... after all they call it internet BUSINESS... so one could expect that some business know-how rubs off on these Coaches... but it doesn't seem that way to me. At least when I look at their …

Making A Difference... How Can YOU Make A Difference?

I have been nurturing this sense that I can make a difference in the world forever... I even remember at age 3-4 thinking about that, so it must have come from before birth... Of course, life doesn't seem to prove it. As a Coach I may be able to change someone's behavior, maybe even contribute to them being high-minded, but all in all, my life, from the point of view of making a difference, has been a failure. I am reaching for the starts, and I am coming up with a fistful of dirt... time and …

Black Friday or how to get yourself into trouble

… marketers have it, and I have nothing. Where all the answers to my problems are out there, with those marketers, and if I don't get it, or even if I do, I am doomed. Not a pretty picture, is it? Now, if this had happened a year ago, I would have thought that it is personal. Because a year ago I was Coaching a few people, but I wasn't in the position to see people, over time, 3-4 times a week, with their moods, with their ambitions and trials and tribulations. Now, I am. And what I am seeing is …

Gratitude, Ambition, Competitiveness, Success.

… And you know what trying is? A code word for nothing. Not doing. Not succeeding. Backtrack to May of this year: I was asked to Coach a group of people who signed up to a course I had done. To the best of my knowledge, that course never produced anyone who made a penny with their efforts as a result of participating. I decided (ego) to create the first group that does... and that was the very first time in my life that I started to travel on the back of ego, get energy from ego, but yet, act in …